wasting my 20s?

Question

So I've been dating a guy that I chased all through high school for about seven months now. Don't get me wrong I love the kid and think I'd be heartbroken if I lost him but at the same time I wanna be able to go out and drink and maybe have random hookups. I don't wanna waste my 20s by staying in a relationship but I don't wanna break my relationship for a few free drinks and maybe good sex. Am I wrong to feel like this and do I tell my boyfriend? Please help

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My husband and I started dating st 19, we're 23 now and one thing we do is role play. We get dressed up, go out to different places alone and act as if we're meeting each other for the first time and have "random hookups." Now, neither of us would ever cheat and we love being married and have a great sex life but we are still in our 20's so this way nothing gets boring, we still get to go out, and we still go home with our favorite person. My husband was my first and only so at times I felt that I was confused as to whether I was too young to get tied down so fast but in the end, I wouldn't change it for a thing.

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You can go out and drink with him. 
The random hookups aren't really fun. Sex with someone you actually care about is a thousand times better. 
Just tell him you want to experience actually being in your 20s together.

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Lol I understand how people can be with someone since they're like 16 and stay together forever, but at the same time I don't understand?? Like do you still love the same things about your partner as you did when you were kids? Do things change? Don't you wanna explore and experiment without being tied down?? I'm obviously not one of these people haha I'm just curious.

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You're not wrong for feeling this AT ALL! Me and my man have been together 4 years and I'm only 20, I felt like this like a year ago but I couldn't bring myself to break it off completely. Just continue to go out with your girlfriends and drink! You don't have to have a hookup to make it a fun night :)

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You will get over the drinking and hookups real fast I promise! It's fun for a little bit but you will wish you had someone to go home to every night who loves you💖 grass isn't always greener on the other side it's a tough lesson to learn. Trust me everyone on that side is wishing they had gotten the boy they chased after in highschool 😉 maybe you both can have nights were you go get drinks and dance etc. You may not even marry this guy and you will get your chance anyway so just don't take it for granted Hun. Best wishes!

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He either needs to give you some freedom to go drinking with trusted friends or you need to just break up with him if you aren't ready for a relationship.

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I spent my 20s with my now fiancee and it was the best.  You get over hooking up and alcohol reallly fast. If you still want to thise, then you are not ready for a relationship. Explore and live your life and then rethink your relationship with him, who knows? . If you two are meant to be, it will happen regardless. Good luck!

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You guys could "pretend to date" again. Get all dressed up have him come pick you pick go out have drinks do fun stuff then go home and have sex like it's all new.

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