have you ever been the side chick or other woman?

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Please no bashing! We all make mistakes. I'm just wondering others experiences in this situation.... I recently found out I was the other woman after dating a guy for almost a year. Of course I ended it immediately upon finding out (I had no idea he was engaged). I feel so used and stupid.

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You shouldn't feel bad. You had no idea there was another woman involved. You were lied to and manipulated just as much as his partner was. You're both the victims in this scenario. Don't feel guilty when you did nothing wrong xx

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Yes I was and it was my choice to date someone who was taken.  He was not married but always had a girlfriend ... about 3 during the 4 years we dated.  I only had sex with him damn he was amazing lol.  I was so in love kept believing that after every failed relationship would be my shot but he kept choosing someone else.  I finally gave up on the idea and started dating someone else and of course that's when he realised he needed to be with me it was just too late.  To this day over 10 years after, he refers  to me as the one that got away.  Today I am married and expecting my first child.

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I was for about a year. He hid it very well. I never knew until he broke it off with me and told me that he was going to stay with his girlfriend. They ended up breaking up a month later and he came running back to me. I only answered his first call to tell him that he made his bed, and I haven't spoken to him since.

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Yup! I had no idea though for a while. It turned out he had 3 girls. One he was dating for 5 years, one for 2 years and then me who was a little more casual. I had absolutely no idea until his longest gf contacted me. We ended up being good friends haha

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I am. We both are committed to other people. We have known each other for 17 years. Since we were 13. We always for some reason end up in each other's lives. Over different periods.  I believe because we were each other's first.  It's an emotional bond no physical. No regrets

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He was married and gave me an std. When I found the wife's FB she had put how she had moved back to California with their kids (army service ending) just a few days before we met. I don't know if he waited for her to leave before he cheated, but I wasn't the only one. I showed her everything & she immediately changed her Facebook to happy little photos of old times, and when he went back home he gave his kids Mohawks 🙄😒. I recently tried to creep on them just to see and both accounts are deleted, again. So I bet he cheated again.

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I was and I knew it. I was at a place in my life where I didn't want a commitment or anyone to "answer" to. I felt bad for his wife but it wasn't my place to tell her. I did eventually break it off because I met my now husband. I love him deeply and would never dream of cheating on him. In your case, you did nothing wrong.

have you ever been the side chick or other woman?

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