this is what drugs do to ppl

So my friend messaged me last night..well actually my ex but he's been gay since childhood and been my friend way longer than we dated. This just makes me so sad.. like you know fully well you have a problem but wait until you're homeless to make an effort to become clean. He's had so many chances to better himself. Had a great job and is excellent at his trade.. always talks about Getting clean but purposely waits until it's last resort. And before people start bashing me, I know it's a disease- I've struggled with addiction myself in the past, and my husband is a recovering alcoholic. He's been sober for a year now. So I do know what it's like.. but when I moved away from my hometown I did it because I knew I'd never get off drugs otherwise. I feel like if I can do it anyone can. And he thinks it's a joke. And no I'm not completely broke but I refuse to pay for his addiction bc I know damn well he won't be buying food with that money. He needs to be sick and feel the pain. When he's had enough he'll hopefully do something for the better