Should I try for a baby? Can you guys help me with advice

Question

Ok so Hey! I am an 18 year old part time college student my boyfriend has a full time job, we've been in a relationship for almost 2 years; next Friday will be 2 years. My boyfriend and I are planning to move in together around the age of 20. *I'll be 19 in January he will be 19 in April* and we've been talking about babies and all. I was wondering should we try to have a baby at this age?

Answer

It's never going to be the right time to try. But my advice is to graduate first and have a career set for yourself. Hopefully one with paid maternity leave. It's just extremely hard to try and finish college with a new baby.

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I'd wait until you guys have lived together for a while. Not only will you want the help of living with him when the baby is born, but living together changes a lot of things for some couples, so you'll want time for that to settle out.

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1.) finish college
2.) have your own place first 
3.) preferably get started on your career Trust me! I'm 18, wasn't trying to get pregnant but I did, and I didn't have those things and it would make the world of a difference if I did.

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I was with my ex from 18-22, then we broke up, and it was only because of distance. My suggestion is, you don't know how life is going to turn out, so why rush? Be young, have fun, enjoy each other. Establish a career.  And think about a committed life together before bringing a baby into it.

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I wouldn't try until you have at least lived together but my best advice would to wait until the two of you are engaged or married.

Should I try for a baby? Can you guys help me with advice

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