Over sexualise myself for love ?!?!? Opinions please 😯

Someone said I'm fucked up a bit in the head because of mums psychotic behaviour to us lot growing up wasn't normal and she was offensive and scary we thought she didn't love us so this person was telling me that apparently I then try to get love of someone else cause I feel like thats all I need. Then she went to say that I over sexualise myself to whoever im with cause I think its what men want and think it will make them love me more if I act that way.

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Basically growing up with my two sisters my mum made our lives hell, wished death on us, hit us , caused arguments , came back drunk and trashed our rooms , forced us to pay rent and her bills cause she couldn't vr bothered working . she is a psycho,she's got bipolar and some other mental condition but refuses to get it checked out so I give up on her

I then went and married my fiance in the US and he unfortunately got emotionally abusive too but I put up with it only cause I was used to this behaviour from my childhood. Then it got too much so I moved home to live with my sister until my baby is born.

Do you think that what this person said is true ??

I am a very sexual woman, I had sex every day. Would always give my husband a handjob or bj, I watch porn and love to tease.

Please please leave your opinion !!!

I don't even know how to take that