when arguing with boyfriend

Question

When my bf and i argue he always uses the typical i live you, i'll do anything for you, i will drop everything but sometimes he exxagerates things which are lies. For example he says he will fly down right then to see me even tho ik he wont. It just upsets me that he says this when its not true. Does anyone elses bf do this?

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You're not alone. My boyfriend and I are in the process of moving in with eachother (I'm 8 months pregnant) but for now, we need to stay at my parents house while we wait for ours to be finished. He hasn't moved into my parents house yet because him and my mother have been arguing and he's extremely sensitive. We might get hit by a hurricane next week so I mentioned that I'd want him in their house with me in case of an emergency and the phone lines are out. He's literally telling me no because my mom "doesn't want him there" even thouuuuugh the other day their fighting made me cry (since I'm super hormonal now) and he was like "don't worry babe I'll still obviously hang out there even if she doesn't want me there just to make you happy and to show you that you mean everything to me". Oh yeah, but a category 5 hurricane may hit and you can't man up and be with me at my parents house. He's a 23 year old man child. I swear.

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My husband does this sometimes

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Call his bluff. Say, "I'm really upset & I really would like that, if you can make it happen." See how he reacts... No my husband doesn't really do that, but your man needs to stop using unrealistic bribes to get out of an adult conversation. ☺

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