my husband doesn't appreciate me

My husband actions tell me that he does not appreciate me like he use too... Now he thinks all he has to do is pay bills and that's enough.... I want him to miss me and realize that I need sometime with him and it would be nice if he took the time to do nice things for me like I do for him.... Before you say it I have talk to him so many times and he don't get it and he works out of town. So we don't get much time, I went to see him. He was happy but he didn't really show me, he just said that he was happy...... Thanks in advance please comment I need help.... I really love him thanks