First time grandma probs! UGH.

I'm 22 and my man & I have to live with my mother until I am financially stable enough to have our own home unfortunately because I lost my job when I was pregnant. Now I have a 7 week old baby that I am super protective about (what mom wouldn't be?)

So, my mom got jealous when I was giving birth because I let my boyfriend in the delivery room even after he and I had been arguing earlier on. And only 2 hours after my baby was born my mom took her chance to completely BLOW UP on my boyfriend while I was using the bathroom.. things got super tense so I asked to have no visitors in the hospital (not only because of that but because I was a FTM also learning how to breastfeed and care for a tiny newborn at the same time) well my mom got butt hurt BIG TIME. She cried about how I "told the nurses to kick her out of the hospital" and now since we have been home she's butt hurt again because I am super strict about not having people touch my baby without cleaning their hands. She got annoyed because I made her wash her hands, face, and change her shirts because she smokes. Like excuse me? My kid. My rules! If I don't want your sticky stank smoke smell on my kids face and body that's MY decision!!! Simple. Just wash yourself. Jesus freaking Christ! Now she has the nerve to confront me saying how she thinks I don't want her to hold my baby or be around my baby blah blah because I've said she smelled like cigs or strong perfume. Once again, MY BABY. MY RULES. Well the last few days she has said she's been quitting smoking (I honestly wasn't going to hold my breath because this isn't the first time I've heard this. She's been smoking for 30+ years) she said she wasn't quitting for anyone but herself because she's been feeling sick like someone's sitting on her chest. Ha, well low and behold guess who just came home today and had the freaking nerve to touch my kid without telling me she just came from the doctors and they said she has bronchitis. 😳😳😳 LIKE EXCUSE ME?!? Who in their right mind comes into a baby's room and touches a 7 week old BABY who hasn't had her shots if you're freaking sick?!!! Well, I'm sure I'll be hearing about how I'm "holding my kid hostage" again and don't want her to hold my baby and what not. Oh well. It's literally beginning to sound like a broken record and I honestly could care less if she touches my baby since she has literally been disrespecting me ever since I've become a mom. She's taken every "happy" moment away from me. I wasn't allowed to go home from the hospital with my bf because she kicked him out. I had no sleep because I was learning to care for a baby on my own since she kicked him out and I wasn't talking to her. She took control of the first bath we gave my baby because I looked nervous so she just got in the way and took over and all I could do was cry. She clipped (well BIT😤😖😡) my kids fingers nails off one day I let her babysit while I went to run errands. She put shoes on my baby for the first time without me saying so. She took her outside without asking me. The list could go on.. Anyways, if anyone's still reading this long ass annoying rant please tell me if this has ever happened to you or what would you do in this situation. Am I crazy? Because I literally feel like I'm gonna be if I'm not already LOL! 😂🙌🏻