Husband rant

So last Saturday was my 5th anniversary and my husband didn't even remember on top of that I asked him to take me to eat at an Italian Restaurant but because his brother (who is currently living with us and doesn't do shit) doesn't like that type of food we ended up going to another place that I didn't want to go at all I'm kind of mad but mostly sad I feel like I'm not a priority to my husband and don't know what to do to make him realize that's his hurting my feelings ( sorry for the long post just needed to let ot all out)