Trying new things...

I have been married for a year and a half and with my husband for 6 and a half years.

We have a active sex life which is great but i work shifts and so does he. We are TTC.

I have said think of new things for us to do etc i have come up with a few but he only wants to do them things once he has had a drink like anal.

He said the other day when I was on noghts he would like to like do things with another couple like them watch us and we watch them. I am not really into that, their was no transition like we dont watch porn together and we dont record ourselves having sex.

I said no and now he has said he wont tell me about what he wants to try now, I wasnt meaning it melliciously, before I met my husband i had sex with other men but none had ever had sex with me in the light or if they did i was partly dressed, i like him being the only one who has seen me fully naked.

I have told him i might want to after a while but just not yet. As far as i can tell he has talked to this other couple he wants to try this with.

Hate the fact he only wants to do this stuff either when he has had a drink and just goes off it as soon as he has sobered up.

He has mentioned threesomes before but i wouldnt be happy seeing another woman having sex with him