Do we have enough in common to last?
Hello!
My question is this: Should I stay with this good man, dispite having little interest in common?
I'm afraid we'll continue to want to do different things and in the long run, break up.
He is an amazing man, I love him so much! The way we laugh together is my favorite, we have a special connection emotionally. Its been a year and still feel it.
But it seems the only thing we actually do together, is hang out at the house.
I asked him what his interest were.
Fishing, working and making money.
He said he doesn't like to do anything with out an actually purpose.
You fish to get fish. You work to get money. You go to dinner to eat...
Which is great for him but I feel like I'm always doing things alone.
I love being afound people, going to fairs, breweries and wine tasting. Watching sunday football and making a day off it. Seeing live music and relaxing around a fire with friends. Going boating and relaxing.
He never cares to do any of it. He'll go with me but I can tell he rather be on his new tractor making money. He gets anxious when he's not being productive.
He doesn't drink and I do. Which takes some din oit of it. He doesn't mind that I do but he gets bored when I do.
When I want to stay for a second beer at a resturant with friends, he's ready to go.
Which is fine, I do not blame him.
I feel bad that I feel this way but I wish I had someone to 'hangout with me.
I considered leaving but then I freak out, I don't want to loose someone that I have such a great emotional connection with.
I don't know, any advice?
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