Lack of privacy and respect.

Okay ladies,

The thing is my partner and I are very private.

We don't share personal stuff on facebook, we don't have public instagrams (and are very picky about who follows us) and hardly ever (pretty much never) post photos of our child.

Now the problem is my MIL (who we don't even associate with anymore after she betrayed our family but thats a whole other story) posts photos of our son constantly and has an open facebook account..

I doubt she will take them down if I ask as she is honestly so fucking rude (I never swear but that woman gets under my skin) I just dont know what to do from here?

Advice? Opinions?

I have many times (when she was still in our lives) said (before and after birth) that I really do not want people to post photos of us, or him without our consent.

I just feel like this is a complete smack in the face.

(If anyone cares about what she did I'll probably update with details just so you know how badly she messed up haha)

Update:

So my partner and her worked for the same company until about 3 months ago.

They are contractors, she worked for the company first but then my partner got 3 titles through them which made her jealous as she only worked 2.

She wasnt willing to learn the new skills to get more contracts, so he got them (bc logic)

My partner and I are expecting our second, recently got engaged and are moving house so, add all those things together and you could say we are in a finacial pickle.

My MIL is good friends with the boss and told him my partner is 'taking on too much for the company' and that 'they should not give him so much responsibility'

She then told the boss that my partner works too hard and needs a break and she will take over his contracts for a while, and so she messaged my partner and took the keys for the 3 building he worked in.

And then the boss let him go.

(And I know this all sounds very fake, I wish it was.. 😒 we cant take legal action either)

Luckily my partner has recently gotten full time work that pays better (he was getting serverly underpaid)

And we haven't sent her photos or let her seen our son in 3 months.

Also she cant understand why we are mad at her, but I cant understand how you could do that to your own child. 😑

Update 1.5:

Another reason she wasn't getting more contracts is due to her trying to quit 1 month prior due to lack of childcare for her 6 year old.