Am I being petty.

So my husband got mad at me because I was hanging out with some friends and lost track of time and didn't notice him calling. My phone was on silent in another room. We get into an argument and he calls me a Birch. I am the type of person who views name calling as extremely disrespectful. He hasn't done it in a while (like 3 months), but he would make a habit out of calling me out of my name when he got angry. I have spoken to him about it repeatedly and like I said he has calmed down. Nonetheless I am very adamant about being respected. The incident happened yesterday and I have still not spoken to him. I feel all communication is terminated with anyone who disrespects me, especially if I have spoken to you about your behavior and you do it anyways.

I guess I am asking if the silent treatment is being too much. Has anyone gone through something similar with their SO. What did you find was the best strategy of addressing it.