Who else has lost their friends?
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We've been friends for almost three years. We use to talk multiple times a day and would hang out ALL the time. Now we talk maybe once a day and hang out maybe once a week for a few hours and during those times I'm annoyed and wishing I was back at home. I can tell she's trying to keep us together, but I honestly don't want to put the energy and time into our friendship anymore.
She hasn't done anything wrong and neither have I, we are just at two different parts of our lives. I'm married and we are starting a family, she's single and likes to go out every weekend and date around. She wasn't like that when we first started hanging out. I started noticing she was changing her views and opinions on everything and I just don't share the same opinions.
I feel like she's turning into a girl she would of hated a few years ago. She's sleeping around a lot more (and not being smart about it), she's drinking ALL the time, and she's very rude and disrespectful. i.e. She'll blatantly make fun of people and not feel bad if they notice. I also feel like she resents me because I'm moving forward with my life. She has started to become jealous of me instead of being happy for me.
All of this is her decisions and I'm not blaming her. She's living her life just the way she wants to and I'm happy for her. She just doesn't fit into mine anymore. I'm not saying my friends have to live the exact life as me, I just don't have much in common with her anymore. I'm not sure what this post is...a rant maybe? I guess what they say is true, when you have kids you lose your friends. On one hand I just want to let this fizzle out on its own and on the other I just want to straight up tell her I can't do it anymore.
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