Can't stop TTC

We've been trying for about 8 months now and it hasn't happened yet. I hear about people who say it'll happen when you stop trying. I don't know how to stop! I feel like I know all of the signs now that I'm ovulating so it's impossible to ignore. It's literally all I think about day in and day out. My husband wants a baby too but doesn't seem to believe in the fact that timing plays a huge part in it. I feel like I'm always pushing him to have sex but he's exhausted from work and I'm just pushing him away. This is exhausting. I don't know what to do anymore.