copper IUD pain?

I'm gonna get the copper IUD soon and I was wondering how bad it hurts to get it out in? 
Going to the OBGYN hurts enough for me as it is.
Did you have spotting and how long did it last?
Also this is a stupid question but if my partner went really deep could my IUD some how come out? Or move? I've heard horror stories before about it dislodging, also can my partner feel it?

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