Husband got a vasectomy.
My husband went behind my back and got a vasectomy , I'm so hurt because he knows how badly I want a child considering 6 months ago I had a miscarriage. He never once told me that he didn't want anymore children ( He has 2 from a previous relationship .) I don't have one of my own and im angry and hurt and emotional about this , I made him leave our home and maybe I was being irrational to some but I honestly don't know how I'm going to ever forgive him and let this go. The man I married isn't the man I thought he was and its so hurtful. My trust for him has vanished. I dont think I can stay in this relationship , for me this is huge and I feel completely betrayed 😞💔
UPDATE :
My reason for this small update is because someone by the name of Callie in the comments feels like I shouldn't be upset and thinks that my husband and I should have had further discussions about having a child before getting married but I didn't think that it was necessary to say that we had discussed it considering I was pregnant with his child 6 months ago when I had my miscarriage , I thought that was enough information, So maybe to you its not a big deal but you're not in the same situation. So maybe I should be a little more specific , We talked about having children , he seemed to be in love with the idea of us having a child together and it growing up to have older siblings (his two other children) He was thrilled or what I thought to be thrilled when I got pregnant. Do you honestly think that I would neglect a conversation about my future with a man and expanding our family before marrying him ? As much as I want a child ?! So yes your comment was very inconsiderate and quite frankly ignorant. Good luck in life.
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