Am I Wrong?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and I have always loved him so much but lately I've been feeling myself drifting away a little because I'm feeling used. I've never cared about money and him buying me stuff because I love who he is but it's almost been two years and we've only been on a "date" 2 times and I had to pay for the uber for us and the tickets. Not only that I'm always buying him clothes or shoes or giving him money but when I ask him to buy me something he never has the money or says he will and it never happens. I spend all this money on him and the only time he has given me anything was some lotions and perfumes last Christmas. I love him but this is really starting to bother me and when I bring it up to him he makes me feel bad like I'm being a gold digger. Am I wrong? What should I do?