21 week anatomy scan showing spina bifida....

Have any other moms on here had this news at their 20-21 week ultrasound? We found out this past Monday from the perinatologist our second (and second son) does indeed have spina bifida after an abnormal ultrasound last week. Thankfully we're in an area with one of the top spina bifida centers in the country, but still it's been a huge adjustment and shift in everything. He'll be delivered via scheduled c-section the middle to end of February now instead of middle of March.