over working fiancé?

Question

So I'm currently 11 weeks pregnant and I have the most amazing fiancé. On top of working 12 hour days and running his business he literally does all the chores in the house. Dishes, cleaning, laundry. He doesn't want me to lift a finger while I'm pregnant. And I get that but I can tell he is overwhelmed sometimes. I try to help but he gets upset. I'm afraid that he will keep this up and maybe snap one day from working so much. Any advice on how to convince him to let me help out?

Answer

Maybe sit him down and explain how much you appreciate all he does and ask him t let you do some simple easy chores to keep you busy like cooking, dusting or vacuuming, something that doesn't involve you lifting heavy laundry baskets or over-exerting yourself. He sounds very sweet!

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Honestly at 12weeks u really have a long way to go ....He's doing everything for u right now when your still in the stages to do it yourself !! maybe u should try doing the chores and things while he's at work that way he comes home to a home with no dishes and the carpet is already vacuumed etc .... Let him save his energy for when your further along and really need him to help you out with these things !!!

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When he is at work then clean the house, have dinner ready for him.

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My husband was doing the same ... working 12 hours and taking care of me. He eventually he got stressed. Once he was stressed he was ok with me helping. Hes better now that we do chores together and he has time to relax.

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