tired of living in fear...

So I've decided that I'm so tired of living in fear!  My husband and I have had 3 early losses and are now almost 13 weeks, the furthest we have made it. I have a Doppler and have had no problem finding the heartbeat many times. But we're still keeping it a secret from many of our friends/family. I feel like I can't keep living in fear. I'm going to literally drive myself crazy. If we tell these people, will it relieve this stress??? I'm ready to feel safe from another loss but I'm just afraid that won't ever happen.