Irritated

I know my mood can go quick and I'm hormonal. So my husband went to his cousin funeral now mind I'm marriage to him for 14 years and not once had he told me about this cousin and I saw him not met him at his uncle funeral. So me texted me complaining about how he wanted to go home and he didn't want to be there no more. So I told him than come home that was in like around 11 today it's 1:30 and he is not come and I texted him to see what's going on he told me he just got to the cemetery. So I told him well thanks for telling me. So I asked do you want me to pick up the kids from school he said i don't know. So I told him well for someone who didn't want to go your sure there. I understand you are paying respect to a cousin who didn't you not know but your there for the family. Okay fine but really don't text me complaining about how you want to go home that you can't handle it. Because it's stressful. Now I'm pissed off like really