Feel bad that I don't enjoy giving oral

Allison • 28 years old, 2 miscarriages in ‘15 & ‘16. Married 💍. 💙 KJS 6/30/18 💙 BBS 4/29/22
Okay... So this may be tmi but here we go! I used to love giving BJs when I first started being sexually active. But now, I hate it. I can't wait for it to be over. My guy takes SO LONG to finish, and I get so cramped up and tired a few minutes in. I also never seem to produce enough saliva. 👎
Anyway, I feel so bad because I love him so much and I know he loves getting them, and I feel like a bad girlfriend for not performing them as often as he'd like. Any tips? I've already tried sucking on hard candy to make me salivate, and my technique is just fine--he just lasts so long. 

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