I need to vent 😪 idk what to do

She said I was only one centimeter dilated 

But her coworker said other wise , she said I was still at 3.5 cms dilated which I been got the past days , I went in for contractions every 5 mins and a migraine 

She said I was lying about my pain even though the contractions where showing up high and steady on the monitor and she also said 164/90 on my blood pressure was normal that she sees no reason for me to have a migraine 

Then she kicked my husband out of the room accusing him of being abusing me after he asked one question which was "is she in active labor? " & she called me emotionally unstable for crying mid contraction and not responding to her question then she snatched my hand out of my face and told me to fix my posture and quit my crying in a very rude tone I showed her the papers that confirmed I was in early labor since 11/15/16 and my obgyn confirming I was 3 cms dilated and already at full term with signs of preeclampsia 

She had set an order to be evaluated for inducetion if my blood pressure levels were high and the midwife told me that my obgyn was wrong and those papers didn't mean anything and she gave me a shot of terbutaline to stop my contractions which didn't work because before they discharged me the nurse said she didn't know why I was being sent home since I was still contracting the same since I got there 😪 I'm currently home still with a head ache and migraine my water is still not ruptured but I'm in a lot of pain , any advice?