My boyfriend can't make me cum

So my boyfriend and I have been together kinda long distance for around 3 years now. We're the only people we've ever been with sexually (we're both seniors in HS), we lost our virginities to eachother and all that. I've made him cum plenty of times, but he just can't make me cum. When he eats me out he only does it for short amounts of time in the wrong places (I try to gently guide him by telling him but it still doesn't feel that good) and he's alright at fingering me but I normally have to tell him what direction to go in for it to feel remotely good. Now I don't know if I have something wrong with me, or it's just because we're both inexperienced. Sex felt okay toward the end, but he literally came in less than 2 minutes. I try to help him out sometimes by talking to him about what feels good but I'm scared of being too bossy or making him feel bad. Any advice? Anyone else feel the struggle? 😩