a few questions about the military.

Hello! I am a mom of one and my partner and I have talked and he is finally agreeing with me to join the military. A disqualification from the military listed is a hemorrhagic disorder. I am aware that this may not be a question that can be answered, but does anyone here know if a hemorrhage after birth will be disqualifying? Also anemia that was ONLY during pregnancy? I'm not quite sure if that's a temporary disqualification in general or permanent!  Also would I need a waiver to join because I have a spouse and son?