Husband poll

.. this morning I asked my husband to take me somewhere new for breakfast and he said OK as we were getting out of bed there were some clothes from last night and the day before that I had to iron and put away they were on the chair in our bedroom so it looked a little messy and he said it better be all clean when I get home or else no sex for you . I got upset that the comment and told him he can go eat breakfast by himself I had lost my appetite. He claimed that he was saying it as a joke but the tone in his voice was obvious it wasn't a joke. And let me tell you my house is always clean I'm a full-time student and practicing for my MCAT in January and I still managed to cook and clean and keep the house going for this man. And I'm not upset that he was threatening to withhold sex am upset that he was making me feel bad about having a few clothes laying around. Do you think I'm overreacting? ...,

Also know I try to talk to him about what he said because he said oh why are you upset I was just joking and I told him how it bothered me and I know if my house is clean or if it's not and I know that it has to be put away I don't need him reminding me. So no we did not go for breakfast he just left the house.