My pregnancy opinions

Okay here goes...

I have no intention to hurt anyone on here. I dont know or understand everyones situation with ttc. I just want to offer a little advice that helped me in my personal ttc situation.

When i first started this app, i religiously logged every question, counted the days until ovulation, any slight change in my body i googled pregnancy symptoms, looked for advice on here, constantly stayed on this app. I began to notice how uptight i was getting, along with most women on here, testing every week, going crazy about it being my month. Again, i dont mean this to be hurtful to anyone. Finally, after months of doing that, i decided to relax some. When it was the right time, it would happen. I checked glow to record my periods, but didnt bother looking at anything else. Instead of having sex when "the time was right", we did it out of desire and "want to" . I quit taking tests ALL the time and quit thinking about the tww. It wasnt worth it bc it consumed my mind. I started working out again and just did my thing like i use to. I did watch what i ate and stopped my anxiety meds just in case i did get prego i didnt want that junk in my system. After i relaxed and let go, we got what we were waiting for, a bfp! I realize some women have done that and still nothing, i am sorry. But for some, it may help to stop worrying so much and trying so hard. Ive had friends who when they relaxed and stopped trying, things fell into place and it happened. I wish you all baby dust and luck with ttc. I hope its your month!! ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡