Am I the one in the wrong? I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been together for almost 2 years and I know he loves me he's just got a shit way of showing, I'm in love with him and have been for a good 5 years... and he's a young boy, yeno? He wants to go to his best mates drinks this weekend, and I'm invited.. but he will be getting drunk and I won't be because I get angry and turn into a sook, he will either say something that will hurt me in a pathetic way, or he will be giving all his attention to his girl mates, well anyway, his mates and him will be going to town at night to pubs and bars and things, but I don't have a 18 plus card yet for ID of my age, I'm from New Zealand and the legal age to drink is 18 here, so he is gonna leave me behind, I'll either go home or stay it his mates BY MYSELF. He says "I should be aloud to hang out with my mates" which is true but he's gonna be drinking at home with them before town.. so can't he compromise and drink at home then come back to ours with me? We live together and it's just really hard on me.. I have no friends and I can't go to my mates, and I just can't trust him, he has not cheated on me but he's got a habit of lying to me so he doesn't have to deal with me being angry or upset.. so I can't handle him going to town, it scares the hell out of me, I have to deal with my anxiety and all that. Am I in the wrong guys? I'm I'm not.. what can I say to him to get him to understand my side for once.