"Talking" to two dudes...?

So I have been talking to two dudes for about a month now. Dude one I was really feeling, and he told me he wanted to be in a relationship with me and that he would show me just that. We talk and kiss a lot, I see him every night and we text all throughout the day. Dude two popped up on my IG and was dming me, I gave him my number cause he was fine. And this was before dude one told me he wanted to be with me, but dude two told me I'm his crush and he wants to get to know me and be my man. I hung out with dude two and he asked me was there anyone else trying to be mine, I said no cause I truly believed it was none of his business. We kissed twice, and I felt guilty. I felt like I was lying to dude one and I wasn't being trustworthy. My friends say I need to feel out and get to know both dudes until one of them does something amazing, something that's like a game changer. And at first I was feeling really guilty doing this to dude one but, lately he's been dry texting me, not answering my calls and not doing what he usually does. I always have to text or call him first and if it wasn't for me who knows if we'd even be talking? My sister told me to go with my gut feeling and give dude two a chance. Dude two texts me every morning, amazing good morning texts. Calls me, snapchats me, asks me questions about my life and can't wait to see me when I'm back in town for school. Dude one at first was doing a good job of making me feel beautiful and important and now he's slacking and dude two is doing better. My question is, am I being a hoe for dealing with these two dudes like this? Am I messed up? Is it wrong? I feel guilty and I don't know if I should or not. 😩