Non supportive family members

Allie
Im currently 15wks pregnant. Many of my family know about the pregnancy and are supportive. The baby's dad and i have 2 kids together already but are not currently in a relationship. We are on very good terms with eachother and still spend quite a bit of time together. This pregnancy was not planned. His family can be very opinionated and sometimes a bit judgemental. Im scared for them to find out about the baby because im worried they will stress me out with their questions and opinions (why, how, you guys arent together, etc). At this point id like them to know and just deal with the responses but my partner has no immediate plans to tell them. I feel like their reactions will be worse if we dont talk to them about it. Im not really sure what the right thing to do is.