selfish husband
My husband and I have been together 6 years and have two kids together (1 and 3 months). Recently he bought a dirt bike and has spent every minute of his free time working on it, completely ignoring me and the kids and if he is home his head is stuck in the iPad watching videos of dirt bikes being rebuilt on YouTube. This has been going on since right after our youngest was born. Our relationship has always been great and we really are best friends, we also have a great sex life but I've been so frustrated with him since I'm a stay at home home and don't get to have a lot of adult interaction day to day since we just moved to a new state for his job. My car has been sitting in the shop being worked on since last week because it randomly stopped starting. Because of that I've been stuck in the house all day with the kids and have been unable to get things like grocery shopping etc done during the day. I've been telling him for the last week that I want to go grocery shopping so he needs to come home so I can have the car (he refuses to grocery shop on his own). Every day he has told me he'll be home on time so I can get groceries and every evening I have been getting a text from him saying he's actually going to be home super late again because he's going to work on his dirt bike. I know that he isn't cheating or anything and is actually working on the dirt bike but it's incredibly frustating that he comes home at 9 or 10pm when the kids are already in bed and then throws me the keys telling me to go grocery shopping now. Like I have a three month old who has colic and is up all night (he doesn't get up at night with the kids at all) the last thing I want to be doing that late at night is grocery shopping just because he's thinking of him damn self and can't come home on time to make things a little easier on me. I deal with two kids under on my own every day, including weekends because he works on his dirt bike then too😒. He's being so incredibly selfish knowing how low we're running on groceries and how I'm unable to leave the house but still continuing to not give a crap and coming home 6 hours after work ends anyway. I've talk to him multiple times and he just brushes it off and tells me I'm over reacting. I have no idea what to do. Any advice?
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