first time !

We have gotten to that point in the relationship -where I know we are gonna have sex lol I used to know I wasn't ready for sex but then alittle time passes and here we are 😂 I'm alittle nervous but I absolutely love him completely. I wish I would have time to get on birth control but to be honest I don't know if I want to anyways. We are gonna use a condom and I'm gonna make him pull out too. My question is- what do you guys advice about anything you wish you knew your first time or some encouraging words lol idk I'm nervous and excited.