Brains of the relationship

Not to be a bitch but I'm the brains of our relationship. I'm the logical thinker, the planner, the Miss do it all. Everything goes better when I plan it out. My SO has no concept of time, how long anything takes and like to make thinks 10xs harder than it has to be. I wish he would just follow my lead and not fight with me about things because more that 90% of the time I get to hear you were right after all is said and done. Yes I know I'm right, my brain is wired to be a planner and yours isn't so just PLEASE for the love of our relationship, let me analyze, plan and figure it out so we can not fight. I hate arguing with him and having stuff be out of whack and take longer for our 2 kids under 4yr. Come on dude just think. Anyone else have this problem? He means well but he just doesn't have that planning logic.

Also I don't care what we do, so I'm not a control freak, just let me know what needs to be done/you want to do and I'll figure out the best way to do it.