How long have you gone

Without speaking to your husband? I'm really mad right now we fought this morning over nothing. I was watching a show both my kids where playing on their tablet and on my show it said ass and he lost his mind. I said nothing back. I didn't feel like arguing so I just shut it off and put a movie on for kids and watched movie with the kids. He kept going n going. Saying I'm childish and called me stupid and ignorant. I finally told him to just go to work and he replied he will go to work and he will have another one of those days where he prays to God I don't call him bc that's a good day. I spent most of morning crying bc I'm almost 19 weeks pregnant with our 3rd baby and mix of hormones and confusion on where to go from here. So now I keep opening my phone to call or text him but then I stop bc obviously if a good day for him is when I don't contact him then why should I contact him? He also left without saying bye to me. We don't do that we always kiss n say bye. So I'm livid n I want to talk to him but I don't at the same time. Part of me wants to change the locks while part of me wants to just call and be the bigger person. Any advice?