help please

my baby is 2 months i left his dad when i was 8 months prego we live in mexico cus he can not come to america i came back to america to have him after i left him i would let him know how my pregnacy was going he would not respond the whole time since i left him he only hit me up twice askn for the bby when i was pregnat i gave up so i did not tell him nothing about the bby if he wanted to he ask or call me i gave birth in nov i wasnt going to tell him i gave birth he new my due date he would see my post on fb he would only like them anyways his sister call him let him know i gave birth she facetime him witch got me mad like its not your decision to let him know, anyways after the bby birth he has only hit me up when he was two weeks old asking hows the bby i wasnt even going to answer his msg but i did he didnt reply anyways my bby going to be 2 months. i would take him my bby so he could meet him but he hasnt ask so why force it. anyways his family going to go mexico they want me to let them take my bby hes not even 2 months to go with out me, i told his family why should i let u take him if his" dad" hasnt even ask for him or ask me to take him and u wana to take him with out me like wtf his sisters like well he call me ask me im like why is he ask u he didnt have the bby with u, cus for me he dosent care cus he hasnt hit me up for shit. i see he has been chillen with a girl who has a kid hes taking care of a kid thats not his buy that girl necklesses that got me mad u playn stepdad but wont step up to be a dad to your own im not going lie i still love him but if he would ask me to take him the bby i would but he hasnt his family dont see that they think im all in my feeling cus he mess with someone els there like dnt keep the bby away from him im like what im not. i dk what do me & his family were close it get me mad they see my point of view they defend him cus thats his family