How to deal with "gay" comments?

Question

I'm thirteen at the moment, and you all know how middle school is. Whatever you do is marked as "gay" if they think it's weird. The problem is I'm bisexual and these comments really make me uncomfortable. I've tried telling the people that say it to stop without coming out, but they usually respond with "That's SO gay." How do I deal with these comments? (ps. im not ready to come out yet.)

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Don't even let it get to you just do u and fuk what people say!

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Young kids say stupid things that don't make any sense. As much as it bothers you, they're not going to stop and I know that it sucks but try to ignore it.

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It's best to ignore those kinds of comments, or if it's a friend saying it, you can try saying "Hey, it makes me uncomfortable when you use that word like that. Could you try using a different one?" Friends should be more supportive, but others may not. Sorry you're going through that, stay strong. This is temporary, I promise.

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They're just sad with they're own lives so they feel the need to pay attention to someone else and try and put them down pay no attention and don't give them a reason to keep on with it the more you react to it the more they're gonna do it

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You don't have to come out, but don't act like being gay is an insult. If you don't react, it'll show them that you really don't care. You are who you are and you should never be ashamed of that.

How to deal with "gay" comments?

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