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But my fiancé finally wants to set a wedding date! I just gave birth to our amazing 4 week old daughter. And we agreed we wanted her to be part of it so it's not going to be for awhile the earliest is when she's 3. I've always wanted my wedding in the fall but he doesn't want to get married in October because so much is going on in that month and it seems overwhelming, and I agree. But I feel so set on October.. Is September or November a good time for a fall wedding? He proposed in August and I've tried to talk about wedding dates but he hasn't wanted to until today he asked me if there were any days that I would like. What seems more fall like to you ladies September or November, I love the look and the feel of fall.