Baby shower dilemma!

So I'm A first time mommy and im only 4 months and I'm due in July. but I'm worried about the Baby shower, my family and my baby father's family. I'm from Ohio and him from Mi. The drive isn't long for either side but not everyone is able to drive. Noone has met one another yet and we've been together for a little over 4 years. I would love for this to be the opportunity for that to happen but I have a feeling I'm probably going to have two separate showers and I'm not sure if that's tacky or "allowed" lol. This is our first and I just want things to go smoothly. Any suggestions??