trying to pick a gender reveal theme and everything is so... sexist?

I'm a feminist and super supportive of women doing "guy" stuff like my dad was supportive of me doing as a child, so I'm just having a hard time finding a theme that doesn't contradict that... like I like "lures or lace" since we love to fish but I feel like it says girls should just be in frilly clothes and shouldn't fish... same for rifles or ruffles, pistols or pearls, etc. Anyone else feel this way? I think I may just go for the bee theme I like, "What will it bee?" 🐝 lol 😅