Thankful but annoyed!

My best friend is throwing me a shower and i am 100% thankful because if it wasnt for her idk what i wouldve done. But im supper annoyed that she wants to do it on my last week of being pregnant who knows if i will even make it that far im currently 35 weeks. Its really not gonna give me any time to get everything organized or situated on top of all that i dont have the energy to be doing all this in last few weeks of my pregnancy... just tryn to vent since i cant tell her who is usually the person i go to vent with my problems

the reason i cant tell her to change the dates is because she has alot on her plate right now and she really didnt have to do this shower for me at all idkmaybe im just trippin