am I nuts?!?!

Question

So my fiancé and I have only been engaged about a week/ been together for about 6 months. People in my family all believe that Levi and me are too good to be true... which I know our love for each other is true!! We both have been talking about trying for a baby the last 4 months and decided to give it a try but now that we have been trying and I feel like there is a BIG chance I could be pregnant this month (will know in 5 days) I'm starting to become nervous about family conflicts... his family all agree that sometimes you just know when you have meet the right person (his parents have been together for 22 years and we're married within 9 months after dating) I'm starting to stress and am scared this may cause problems with the baby if I were to be pregnant... has anyone else been through this sorta thing? Any tips?? Please help!

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You started trying for a baby after 2 months? Even if you're meant to be, what's so wrong with just being together? And if you're getting married, get married and then try for a baby. I never had doubts in my relationship, getting married, or trying for a baby. Maybe everything is moving faster than it should. Enjoy yourselves without putting extra stress on top of the situation.

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You guys were actively ttc so you have to deal with the family now

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You dont really know anyone in 6 months. It sounds more like lust rather than love. But thats just me. In 6 months you can hide a heck of a lot and pretend to be someone you aren't. If he is the one, awesome... But why do you need to rush into it? Conceiving intentionally so soon will more than likely cause problems... Possibly with both sides. Excepting a SO is one thing... A baby is a whole different subject. But if its what you want then no one is going to stop you. Hopefully, if you are pg, your family will be supportive regardless of the relational issues they have.

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Your post is a bit confusing. What will cause problems? Being together for 6 months only and having a baby?

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My experience is very similar. We were together 6 months when I got pregnant and got engaged shortly after. I'm due to give birth in a few weeks :)

His side of the family were very accepting of me and have been amazing.

My side of the family don't want anything to do with him or our pregnancy. So I have fell out with my side and have moved in with my fiancé. We've now been together over a year and I couldn't be happier. The way I see it, the people on my side I have lost, I would have lost at some point anyway. It just took a huge thing like becoming pregnant to bring it all to a head and bring  out people's true colours.

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Yep you're nuts. Slow it the fu*k down honestly

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Don't listen to these people. My husband and I met in September 21st of 2015 got engaged December 3rd of 2015 and got married on June 18th is 16. We started trying for a baby October of 2015, one month of being together. Now we have been married for 8 months and are 8 weeks pregnant. Good luck to you!!

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You made the dissions to start trying .you have to just learn to put everyone else's opinions to the side. It will all work out how it's supposed to be

am I nuts?!?!

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