Should your boyfriend stop talking to a girl when you ask me to?

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It REALLY depends.

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I guess it depends. 
If you have good reason to suspect him of cheating, or if the girl is nothing but trouble, something like that then sure.

If this is a girl he has been good friends with for awhile, no evidence of any wrong doing and you're just paranoid, then no. It's a little unreasonable. You shouldn't force your SO to give up their friends just because you don't trust them.

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I say no. I'm a big advocate for trust in a relationship. I have a low tolerance for bullshit so if he's fucking around, he can just leave. If he'd rather text some girl than spend time with me then that is his choice and he can leave. If I feel like he's inclined to cheat, I would just break up with him. I don't get why you would be with someone who you think would cheat on you anyway.

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Yeah of course, but if he asks you to stop talking to a guy, stop talking to the guy.

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It depends on why you're asking him to stop talking to her. My boyfriend has a number of female friends and I've got no issue with it. He's never given me a reason not to trust him so I really don't mind at all. He's even friends with a girl he's slept with (we were broken up at the time and ended up sleeping with a friend once). I don't like that fact that he's friends with her but they're just friends. There's nothing there. He's with me and she's dating someone else. I trust him completely I wouldn't be with him otherwise so I'd never ask him not to talk to her.

But if she still had a thing for him or any other girl was trying to break up our relationship then yes I'd ask him to stop speaking to her. But in all honesty I probably wouldn't need to as my boyfriend has walked away from a friendship before because a friend of his wouldn't stop trying to come between us (she really didn't like me). So I don't really think I'd never need to say anything to him and honestly I don't think it's my right. If I can't trust him around another woman then why stay with him?

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I think to a certain degree it's about respect 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Yes because if you're asking him to stop, then there's a reason behind it. If he asked you to stop talking to a guy, you wouldn't. Out of respect for him. Just like he should with respect for you. It's not really a lack of trust, because of course you trust him. And he you. But that doesn't mean you have to sit and be bothered about a girl talking to him, even if it's innocent.

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If it's a friend he talks to every once I a while then I believe he should have the right to talk to her. If it's someone he texts a little too often and it's more then just platonic friend topics then I'd say yes he should stop texting her

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It really depends on what kind of friendship they have. If you're just a jealous person and don't like him speaking to any of his girl-friends, then I say no. He shouldn't stop talking to someone because you're insecure. If there's flirting going on and whatnot, it looks fishy and isn't a close friend, then yes. He needs to respect you.

Should your boyfriend stop talking to a girl when you ask me to?

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