I have a couple weeks left until D day. This is our third. I love my family and love my in laws but this time around I really just feel like nobody else at hospital aside from my husband and our older children. I know it won't end up going down like that...my parents and mom in law will want to come, and I understand. I just love the idea of taking time after birth to chill. I'll be having a repeat csection (which I'm totally fine with) illl have a catheter and will be pretty darn constiptaed and as you ladies know bleeding. Just not a time where I'll want to do much else except bond with new baby and older children and hubby. Is this selfish? Does anyone else feel this way also? If you're not having outside visitors right away what are you telling everyone? I would just prefer a week ( even better two weeks) without visitors