First doctor's appointment

Went to my first doctor's appointment got a due date of Sept 30th but with my last two kids I was induced at 36 wks due to the risk of pre-eclampsia so I'm figuring we will be following the same thing with this one.

My nausea seems to be subsiding thankfully. My only issue is my girlfriend wants to be supportive but she just can't put her heart into my pregnancy. She wanted so bad to be the one that got pregnant she has been trying for a little over a year with no luck so she told me to try and I got pregnant my first cycle trying. So it's really hard to see me being pregnant or going with me to my appointments when she wants it to be her. She gets upset every appointment and it causes me to get really sad. I already have high blood pressure and really can't afford the stress but I don't know what to do I don't want to be alone throughout my pregnancy I need her by my side but I know how bad she wants to get pregnant I find myself wishing she was instead of me but there's nothing I can do now. I just want to deliver a healthy baby when the time comes I just don't know if I should give her time and hope she comes around or what