threesomes?

Question

I'm so fucking scared and confused. What does it mean if your man asks you if you'd like to be in a threesome with him... we have been dating for a year and now I feel like I don't fulfill him enough so he has to bring in another girl... I really truly thought this was my soulmate because everything has been going so good but we have recently just been having some troubles with sex... I just don't think I'm good enough for him what so ever. Ladies, have any of you been in this kind of situation and how did you handle it?... 😭😭😭

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My ex boyfriend was hell bent on finding an extra girl for our relationship. Like, made dating site profiles for it. We didn't last long, it was very disrespectful to me. I have nothing against those in polyamorous relationships, but it's not for me and he knew that.

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I was the one proposing the 3some😅. Not because he doesn't fulfill me, he does and I love him more then I ever did but a 3way it's always been one of my biggest fantasies ever and really wanted to try it out. Maybe it's the same for him, it doesn't mean that he's less attracted to you!

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Say yes but only if it's another guy and not a girl! That would make him stop! 
But in all seriousness is it just him talking about it while you two are having sex? Or did he bring it up while having coffee? Some guys like to have dirty talk while having sex. He can fantasize in a hypothetical world what you would do with another girl and talk freely about it. If that's the case, girl he's being open about what he thinks about and that's actually a really good thing! You want to be able to talk about what you like and don't like during sex. What runs throw your mind what gets you wet what gets him super hard. It's fun finding that kind of stuff out. (Not always I have a true horror story about an ex) But kinks are fun to figure out with someone you trust and care about as long as it stays comfortable for you both. And it stays just pillow talk.
That being said if it was a coffee conversation then maybe he's kind of being a dog and has someone in mind and that would make anyone uncomfortable. And feel the way you feel.  you need to tell him that's how u feel before you end up resenting him and it will ruin your relationship. 
Different things works for different people. My husband is a huge softy during the day and I'm normally pretty dominant so in the bed room I like to be submissive and he likes being in control. We have have threesums, one with another girl and one with another guy. We have done complete couple swaps and gone to open sex party's. We're both very comfortable with our sexual kinks and we trust each other. We have safe words and ways to know if we're uncomfortable in situations. And we have rules, we play together in the same room or not at all. And we always play safe! Because that's what it is just adult play time, I will say I have gotten jealous a few times and same with him but we talked about and and we came up with solutions together to make us both comfortable...

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Sharing is not caring. Really it isn't in this situation and I'd tell him your uncomfortable about it. Threesomes can be messy. I would not be happy seeing another girl even breathe on my man let alone fucking him too

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