Am I Suppose To Give My Son His Last Name?

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I currently found out I was 05 mnths pregnant about a few weeks ago. I didnt know i was pregnant till up till recently (was showing no symptoms). I tld the father of the bby and he kept telling me that he was "not ready" and wanted me to get an abortion. I schedule a doc appt ignoring the abortion comment and they set my due date to July 22, 2017. I tld him tht i heard the baby heart beat and everything. He kept telling me he wasnt ready and then stopped replying to my texts and answering my calls. Tht was almost a week ago. He also has another child by another woman. I deleted him off my social media accounts been trying to get over the hurt tht I have but my friend thinks I shuld give my son his last name and I think he dnt deserve it at all. Am I just being tht "spiteful baby mama" cause i refuse to give my child his last name?

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No. If he doesnt want to own up to this and be a father he doesnt deserve the baby to have the same last name

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If he's not wanting to be apart of the babies life. Don't give the baby his last name

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If he don't want to be involved I would never put his last name. Trust me it will be better off for you in the future if you find someone who loves you and your baby and would want to be the real father and adopt the child. You also don't want to hear someone calling you in the future Mrs. ... people just assume that the child's last name is your last name too and I've been in this situation in the past and it was awful ! You and your baby deserve so much better than this !

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No , not at all . My first has my last name.  Her dad wasn't interested in her when I was pregnant so when birth happened it didn't make sense to give her anyone else's last name !

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No! That is not a right. He wants nothing to do with his baby, why do the honor of naming him/her after him! My friend did the same thing but a few months after her son was born she came to reality that he was good for nothing and changed it to hers.

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Sorry to be rude but your friend is stupid....
If he doesn't want to be a part of your sweet angel's life, then he doesn't deserve to be a part of it at all. Give your baby your last name, give them the best life you can, and you will feel great. Congrats ❤

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I don't think so.  If you will be raising your child alone then it's OK for the baby to have your last name.

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I wouldn't give him the last name. He's not deserving of it at all

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Doesn't matter whose name he has... Your child will know who the true parent is based off actions! I had my dads last name and even though he was in my life for 15 years he was never really a true father or provider! I hyphenated my name in my career once I left college! Then I got married and it's finally not his anymore! It was part of who I was but not because of him! But because of what I made out of it!

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i'm giving my son my last name and my situation is similar to yours .... your the mother !

Am I Suppose To Give My Son His Last Name?

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