husband said sex sucks

My husband last night decided that he wanted to mess around, meaning he wanted a BJ and that was it. I told him make sure you don't (you know) because we're trying to get pregnant, during the blow job I mention this, with what he called an attitude and lost his hardon. Jumps off the bed and says we had the opportunity to have sex all day today and i didn't initiate it it, now it's 1am and I just wanted a BJ then says sex sucks, everything sucks. He's been trying to do anal with me now for years, and I'm sorry I'm just not ready for that. He even tries during sex to see if I'd let him in and I jump up and say no. I told him he would regret those words. Now I don't want to have sex with him. I feel totally insecure, don't even get any to try for a baby now I'm so f**ken mad and I don't care how frustrated he is or stressed out from work, I think he crossed the line. I think that was so disrespectful, it's not always great, but i keep it to myself because I love the son of a bitch, but damn...really???Thoughts?