How Would You Do It?

Question

Unfortunately, I've decided to take the time from my "SO" and distance myself. But I'm told I'm doing it the wrong way by not telling him what's wrong. I'd rather not argue with his dumb ass and leave when I'm not feeling wanted. There's more to it than this and would be happy to share with whoever asks but how would you make it known that you aren't happy and that something needs to change? My mind is made up...I'm done. I cannot take the heartbreak anymore. I just got out of the hospital for issues that resulted from extreme stress. Am I taking the wrong way out by just leaving him? How would you leave somebody that knows you don't feel appreciated and still continues to do dumb shit to make you feel even worse?

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Whatever is making you leave him, he needs to know. I agree with the writing of the letter, send a text message or a carrier pigeon,  but tell him. It will give you some peace and possibly give him a way to change his behavior

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You could always write a letter and leave it for him to find. I'd keep it concise and simple, just enough to give him the courtesy of closure. It might even prevent some of the initial upset phone calls if you just left.

I hope you feel better and leaving helps you get to your emotional health goals. 💛

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Since you won't disclose details, I am assuming this is a boyfriend and not a husband, which in every case of you get the bad feelings you should leave. But if this is your husband, I would suggest counseling first.

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Just break up. You don't need to explain it.

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Just leave and don't look back. But communication is important in a relationship if you wannamkae it work. Don't be afraid to be straight up and say I'm unhappy because of this. Though it seems you don't really care to fix it anymore

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