Pull out method?

My guy and I just started having sex (my first he's really experienced) he has tried with me and with others to use a condom and he just goes soft and can't get hard again. We have just been making sure to pull out while I'm still trying to get on the pill. How horrible of a decision is this?
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Em

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Wouldn't risk it without another method of protection 

Wh

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My partner and I use the pullout method and have been for the whole time we have been dating. We have had 1 pregnancy scare but only because I was stressing over exams. But I agree it's not safe it's 78% affective if done correctly. 

Th

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ik its not for everyone.. but me and my so have been using the pullout method for a year and almost 4 months with no slip ups. hes never cummed in me. ever. and i looked up literally every precaution you must take when using this method. so id like to note that he cant cum without pissing prior to penetration. bc the sperm is leftover inside and can come out wth pre-cum. also theres a slim chance that some guy's precum contains sperm in a small amount but still there. but if hes used pullout before then id doubt he has it but still a chance. so bc of that i wouldnt use this method when youre in ur fertile window bc 5 days before to a day after your fertile window. now i am only 17 so you dont have to take my advice on everything ive looked up but hope it helps.

An

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Horrible horrible horrible. Don't listen to anyone saying it works for them for multiple reasons: a. It only takes one screw up to be pregnant or have an sti. B.there could be people with imperfect health who have less of a shot at getting pregnant so that attributes to their "success" and c. Common sense. If a baby is something you're not ready to entertain the idea of don't take the risk

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Angela • Mar 31, 2017
*time

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Angela • Mar 31, 2017
Exactly, you don't know there is an issue until you start trying most of the tike

Ju

Ju • Mar 31, 2017
Omg couldn't agree more, especially B - there's a lot of people who do not even know if they can have kids vouching and saying that is method works for them when they don't even know if they can have kids. Not everyone is the same!

Br

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Me and my ex did that for 9 years and no pregnancy. My current boyfriend and I also did until we decided that we wanted to be pregnant. My current boyfriend couldn't wear condoms either. It was always too tight or too small in general.  But if you want to use other protection, try using the female condoms. Just look it up on amazon. It seems weird at first but you barely notice it if you put it in right. Feels great and solved the issue. 

La

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I've been doing it with my boyfriend for 6 months and no pregnancy scare yet. You just need to know how to do it correctly. For example, make sure he pees before sex and hasn't jacked out because sperm will stay in the precum. Also, always make sure he pulls out and aims away from the treasure box. Finally, remember if you do a round two there is a possibility that there is still sperm on his penis. 

Al

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Pull out method is only about 80% accurate, also hope he has gotten himself tested for STDs! 

Ni

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I done pullout with FAM.... surprise pregnant.